AFTERMATH: Healing from the Trump Presidency

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Publisher: International Psychotherapy Institute

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Donald Trump’s behavior is encouraging the development of a generation of people inclined to hateful identity politics and bigotry, while also dismantling our country’s institutions and natural resources. Aftermath is a guide on how we can heal, with ideas on how each of us can help bridge the divide that has only grown deeper since Election Day in November 2016, due in part to the way Trump constantly shifts blame. This behavior is known in psychoanalytic circles as projective identification, a phenomenon people employ who unconsciously dislike something about themselves. Instead of taking responsibility, they blame those feelings, thoughts, or actions on others. Trump is an expert at this, and it’s hurting all of us.

To heal will take time, patience, and a willingness to take stock of our viewpoints and square them with divergent ones. It’s not so unusual anymore for families and friends who find themselves on opposite ends of the political spectrum to refrain from engaging in any sort of meaningful conversation for fear that such discussions will ruin already fractured relationships. It shouldn’t be that way. 

Though rooted in psychoanalysis, Aftermath gets at the essence of projective identification as nurtured by Trump, and how we can combat its prevalence in order to once again engage in thoughtful, meaningful debate with those on opposite ends of the political rainbow without resorting to violent rhetoric.

We must demand that our leaders engage in a process that incorporates a respectful way of communicating between and among people. Aftermath shows the way. 


Want to learn more about healing the divide in the United States?
Visit Dr. Messina’s website: aftermath-trump.com for more information and helpful ideas.

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2 comments on “AFTERMATH: Healing from the Trump Presidency

  • Robert M Gordon PhD, ABPP Psychoanalyst says:

    United States:

    Dr. Messina’s book could not be better timed. The nation and the world has been thrown into a state of anger, paranoia and divisiveness with Trump’s psychopathology. Trump has been voted out of office but a recent survey by the Pew foundation found that nearly 80% of Americans now say they have “just a few” or no friends at all who support the other presidential candidate. Many say it’s beyond policy disagreements — they see their differences as basic morality that can’t be overlooked. Dr. Messina offers a path toward healing with the deep insights that can be provided by psychoanalytic thought. Dr. Messina is scholarly, but also a rare engaging writer. This book is a pleasure to read as well as extremely valuable. I was able to treat my patients with a borderline personality organization by learning about their primitive defenses. Those who identify with Trump often use those same defenses. If you want to understand such people, then reading this book will help.

  • Harry Gill, MD, PhD says:

    USA:

    Dr. Messina’s latest book entitled Aftermath: Healing from the Trump Presidency couldn’t be timelier or prescient. Here we are on election day, it’s early in the day of the November 3rd., and Dr. Messina has clearly and concisely described the psychological mechanisms that Donald Trump has used to rein havoc on our scared institutions and individuals. One such mechanism is projective identification, which she explains in layman’s terms as blame shifting. She goes far beyond the problems that Trump has caused by brilliantly setting a path towards healing, both as a nation and as individuals. Dr. Messina’s insights go far beyond Mr. Trump per se and can be applied to other major leaders in the private and public sectors. Her book is a fascinating read with insights that can be applied to our everyday encounters in our work life and in our personal relationships.

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